The Game of Life and How to Play It, by Florence Shinn

Game of LifeWhy this book: Recommended to me by a woman I often refer to as my “spiritual advisor.” I have considered her advice and perspective “sage” and very helpful to me, and when she suggested that I look at this little book, I did. Indeed I find that my friend’s insights seem to come in large part from what she has garnered from this book and how she has used it to understand her own experience.

My Impressions: I can’t say that I’ve read anything in The Game of Life and How to Play It that I haven’t read or heard before. But that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t read or hear it again, and again, and again. And I expect to re-read this book, perhaps several times. At least I should.   It is very nicely packaged into about 90 pages – almost a pamphlet of this woman’s perspectives, written down nearly a century ago, not published until 1925, and she has been dead for over 70 years. Yet in many ways, it is timeless.

It has a strong Christian message, but it is clearly written for those with a VERY broad understanding of Christianity. I almost sense that her strongly Christian approach is in order to appeal to her target audience of the early 20th century, but her message is very Universal Religion in its tone, and Buddhists, Jews, spiritualists, Hindus, agnostic spiritualists (like me) and many others would be very at comfortable with her message.

She strongly advocates the power of words to bring thoughts and desires into fruition. She advocates properly verbalizing what we want, putting these desires into the form of an affirmation, and then that we repeat these affirmations regularly and believe in them with an open heart, connected to the “Infinite Spirit.”   She offers us a number of universal or spiritual laws, and writes of The Law of Karma, The Law of Substitution,The Law of Non-Resistance, The Law of Use, The Law of Forgiveness, The Law of Love, Divine Pattern and Intuition.

The Game of Life could almost be a spiritual handbook to go with two books I’ve reviewed previously – Paolo Coelho’s The Alchemist, and the Business Leadership book Synchronicity.

Her message is to get in synch with the “Infinite Spirit” and in that process, to visualize what we want in life. With that connection to God, and her proposed method of visualization and affirmation, we should get the riches and life we deserve, “by divine right.” She goes back and forth between advocating affirmations that have a specific request, and advocating affirmations that ask the “Infinite Spirit” to provide the right thing – what one needs, what will fit “the divine pattern,” if that may not be what we specifically want.

She advocates expecting and believing in the good things we want -and preparing our heart, our mind, our lives to receive it. She offers many, many examples of people who have done so, and seemingly miraculously, their wishes have been fulfilled. Whether one fully accepts her thesis of visualization, affirmations, faith and spirituality leading us to the pot at the end of the rainbow, her message is compelling, and in my own opinion, powerful.

 

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Go Set a Watchman, by Harper Lee

Go set a WatchmanWhy this book: My reading group selected it to read and discuss. I had been wanting to re-read To Kill a Mockingbird for years, and selecting this book gave me the excuse to do so. I found it most interesting to read directly after re-reading Mockingbird.

My Impressions: Though I read several negative reviews of Go Set a Watchman, and I agree with some of the criticism I read, I liked the book and am very glad I read it. The review that I thought was most interesting was in the New Yorker and can be read at: http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2015/07/27/sweet-home-alabama. I agree with the author of that review that, had this not been Harper Lee, this book probably wouldn’t have been released as it was. It still needed much editing and restructuring to be a book worthy of Harper Lee. That said, it WAS Harper Lee, with the same wonderfully comfortable writing style. Especially just after finishing To Kill a Mockingbird, it was a joy to meet Scout and Atticus, and Aunt Alexandra, and a few of the other characters, 20 years later. I don’t think it would have been as good a read, had I not read Mockingbird first.

At least two friends told me they didn’t want to read Watchman  because they didn’t want it to sully their idealized image of Atticus Finch as the wise and courageous Ward-Cleaver-in-Alabama father-figure, since this book is reputed to portray Atticus as less ideal than he was in Mockingbird.  It is true that he is not revealed as a 21st century enlightened egalitarian, but he is still a good and wise man –within his time and context.   Harper Lee reveals the recalcitrant South of the 1950’s, where most whites are still desperately holding on to the privileges and entitlements they felt were their due, simply by virtue of their race. This indeed is an important message of the book.   But I felt Watchman was really more about Scout growing up and maturing into Jean Louise, and that the issues of racism and bigotry in Maycomb were simply the context in which she was forced to choose between a path of love and wisdom, or to succumb to her own, different sort of “bigotry.”

The story takes place during a brief (two week) visit to Maycomb to visit her father and her (serious) boy friend Henry. Throughout the book, Jean Louise is torn between her nostalgia for the happy, secure world of her  childhood, and the voice of her “modern” sensibilities, revealing to her (again) the backward and unreconstructed side of Maycomb, Alabama. The freedom and worldliness she brings to Maycomb are not understood, nor welcomed by most of those still living in the post-reconstruction South.

I really enjoyed a number of the fascinating characters in this book and I would have loved for Harper Lee to have further developed them, so that I could have gotten to know them better and enjoy them that much more.    I truly enjoyed getting to know the central figure of the book – the intelligent, struggling, sensitive, and righteous Jean Louise Finch. So much energy and idealism, so much love, so much confusion and angst!  Harper Lee left us guessing what the next steps might be on the trajectory of her life.

Aunt Alexandra, Atticus’s sister, almost a caricature of conventional morality, was again, as in Mockingbird, a fascinating archtype. “She was the last of her kind: she had river-boat, boarding shcoool manners; let any moral come along and she would uphold it; she was a disapprover; she was an incurable gossip.” And as in Mockingbird, at the end, though we may not have liked nor agreed with her, we came to respect and perhaps even admire her.

Replacing Atticus as the main voice of morality in this book is his brother,  Uncle Jack Finch, the Doctor who “would unwind the reel of his strange lore to reveal reasoning that glittered with a private light of its own.”   Uncle Jack pointed out that, “Prejudice, a dirty word, and faith, a clean one, have something in common: they both begin where reason ends.”  It was Uncle Jack to whom Jean Louise turned when her world came crashing down.

And her boyfriend/fiance Henry, the Maycomb Kiwanis Club’s Man of the Year, a practicing attorney, Atticus’ protégé, striving for respectability in Maycomb, to overcome being considered “white trash” in his youth, based only on his parentage.   I liked and respected Henry, while also accepting some of Jean Louise’s accusations against him.

The theme, the setting and the writing are wonderful. What detracted from the book was that it does not flow smoothly and is not well laid out.  Watchman struggles to get its footing during the first half, and digresses into long retrospectives from Jean Louise’s childhood as Scout. Then suddenly, we are brought back to Jean Louise’s visit to Maycomb as an adult. Other than being nostalgic interludes for fans of Mockingbird, it wasn’t altogether clear to me the purpose of several of these retrospective vignettes.

There is however one long amusing digression into her teenage years, when she attended her first high school prom as a 15 year old. She didn’t want to go as the “Tom Boy” she was – and wanted this dance to be her coming out as a woman. In order to better fill out her newly purchased gown, she enhanced her figure with “falsies” (a term I haven’t heard since junior high school!) which, at a most inopportune time and manner, shifted out of place, leading to more embarassing and amusing results.

I felt that the main theme of the book stood on its own without the nostalgic references to Jean Louise’s To Kill a Mockingbird childhood.  How Jean Louise’s perspectives  had changed after leaving Maycomb, the righteous indignation with which she reacted to what was going on in her home town, her shock and disappointment at finding that people she loved and trusted were somehow associated with a reactionary movement, and then her eventual maturing and coming to terms with it, were enough to make the book a very worthwhile and fascinating read.

Why the title “Go Set a Watchman?”

A somewhat confused and unsettled Jean Louise thinking to herself after facing the prejudices and narrow perspectives of her former friends and school-mates: “I need a watchman to lead me around and declare what he seeth every hour on the hour. I need a watchman to tell me this is what a man says, but this is what he means, to draw a line down the middle and say here is this justice and there is that justice and make me understand the difference.”  Separately and later, Uncle Jack Finch tells her, “Everyman’s island, Jean Louise, every man’s watchman, is his conscience. There is no such thing as a collective conscience.”

Go Set a Watchman is about adapting to a changing world and understanding and loving people who are imperfect and see things differently than oneself. It is a wise and loving morality tale, written in Harper Lee’s beautiful prose. Though it could have been better structured and edited, I liked it and recommend it.

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Return on Character- The Real Reason Leaders and their Companies Win, by Fred Kiel

Return on characterWhy this book: I was intrigued after reading an excellent and very positive review of this book in Strategy and Business.  Since serving as the Naval Academy’s Director of Character Development, I have struggled with the three fundamental questions about character that my philosophy mentor Dr George Lucas posed: What is (good) character?  Can it be developed?  If so, how?   This book addresses all of those questions, and adds one more: Why bother? Well,  Kiel’s research concludes that virtue is not simply its own reward – there can be good money in it too!  While we all want to believe that, most of us don’t. So I wanted to read the book to see how he makes his case.

My impressions: In Return on Character ( “ROC” for shorthand) Fred Kiel seeks to discredit the old saw that “nice guys finish last” by showing the data that “proves” that in business, and over the long run, good guys and gals (who are also competent at business skills), finish first – or at least way ahead of the game.  In trying to tackle in a fairly comprehensive way, the huge topic of the role of character in business, this book is more ambitious than most business leadership books.  It does a good job of discussing this complex topic in terms that most can readily understand. Kiel doesn’t refer to the giants of western intellectual history who have wrestled with the nuances of character over the millennia, steering clear of academic philosophy in order to better connect with a larger target audience.

The author’s consulting company KRW International did a survey of 84 CEO’s and their companies over several years. Based on the responses of the CEO’s AND their employees, he identified 10 of who he called “Virtuoso CEOs” – those who best met the standards for good character that he establishes in his book.   These he compared to those he referred to as “Self-Focused CEOs” – the 10 whose character scores were lowest in his study.   The rest of the CEOs studied fell in somewhere along the spectrum between those two groups. He says that his book offers “a close and inextricable link between CEO character and value creation.” He makes the case that his study showed that a company’s profitability corresponded pretty closely to where its CEO broke out on his character spectrum, and those companies led by his Virtuoso CEOs were far more profitable than those led by the Self-Focused CEOs.

ROC Value Chain (from the book)

ROC Value Chain (from the book)

The book identifies four  “Keystone Habits” which form the basis of his concept of good character: Integrity, Responsibility, Forgiveness, and Compassion, and he explains what each entails how they are manifest in behaviors in the work place. He spends less time on the four key activities of what a leader does: Decision Making, Vision and Strategy, Senior Team Development, and Creating a Culture of Accountability. One could easily quibble with these two lists of four, but for the purposes of his book and his message, they work.   He does make clear that, for a CEO of good character to succeed s/he must also be proficient in the fundamental “skills” of business leadership. He says: “Character (who the leader is) + Skills (what the leader does) = Results (Return on Character.)”

One finding that surprised him and his team,  is the key role of the CEO’s executive team. This insight forced Kiel  and his team to change the criteria for a Virtuoso CEO.  He said a couple of CEOs who scored very  highly on all measures of character,  he did not include in the ten Virtuoso CEOs. Though employees scored these CEOs high in character, they scored these CEO’s  executive teams relatively low in character qualities, and this was reflected in levels of engagement and other measures in their companies. Kiel and his team concluded that a fundamental responsibility and “behavior” of a Virtuoso CEO is to select, support and inspire an executive team that reflects the CEO’s strong character and values.  He made this a key criterion for “Virtuoso” status.

Another interesting finding that came out of his research was how much more self-aware Virtuoso CEOs were than Self-Focused CEOs.  Virtuoso CEOs are more open to feedback, while Self-Focused CEOs are more likely to respond to unpleasant feedback with denial. And it is interesting that the next book on my Business Leadership agenda is Marshall Goldsmith’s Triggers – which is largely about how leaders – or anybody – can develop greater self-awareness as part of a personal development effort.

In the final section of the book, entitled The ROC Habits Workshop, Kiel tackles the ticklish question of whether and how one can improve one’s character, assuming one is convinced that it is worth the trouble.  In other words, how might I become a better person, so that I can garner all the success at work and in life that he describes? For those truly motivated, he offers a step by step process, which requires discipline, coaching and support from friends, family, and colleagues. I can imagine psychologists having a field day with his process, but in fact it makes sense to me – for those individuals who truly have the desire and will to improve, and whose character is not too far off the spectrum.

He summarizes his study on page 208: “We’ve learned… that character matters, that our character is a product of our genetic heritage and our life experiences, that we express character through our habitual behaviors, and that like all habits, we can change our character habits <italics his>. We’ve seen that by changing our leadership character, we can begin the process of improving the character and culture of the organization we work for. When we effect that kind of deep and meaningful change, we can change the lives of everyone our organization touches – our workforce, our clients, our communities, our world.”

A pretty idealistic outlook, I’d say.  There is certainly room for some skepticism, regarding whether self-focused leaders would be willing, much less able, to change their characters – even if motivated by the promise of more profits, or even spiritual rewards.  I do believe that true transformation is possible, but it is not all that common.  But I’d rather believe in Kiel’s idealism than the negativity of the cynic, who would dismiss such idealism as woefully naïve.  Recall Oscar Wilde’s description of the cynic as one who,  “…knows the price of everything, and the value of nothing.”

A good friend of mine is very interested in the subject of this book, but doesn’t think he can read it in its entirety, and asked that I recommend to him key chapters. Accordingly, I’ve recommended that in addition to reading the one page summaries at the conclusion of each chapter,  he read the Introduction, Chapter 1 (Character Defined), Chapter 6 (The ROC Ripple Effect); and Chapter 8 (Developing an ROC organization).

I recommend that anyone who finds this review of interest, read the excellent review that inspired me to read this book.  It is at Strategy and Business.

A drawback to this book: Kiel does not address examples that would not support his thesis. I suspect that his response to this objection would be that such examples didn’t show up in his study.   But to give credibility to the sweeping generalization he makes, he should have addressed the possibility that his theory MAY have some holes in it. There clearly are and have been business leaders whose people don’t like or respect them, who don’t embody his keystone character habits, whose characters are not “virtuoso,” but who have been financially enormously successful, and people have stayed with them because they just continue to make solid and successful business decisions that lead to “success,” as measured traditionally – by the single (vice the triple) bottom line.  Kiel’s argument that great business success comes with great character combined with great business skills, can be countered with examples of those who have succeeded in business with great business skills and (arguably) poor character. We seldom however, see people with great character and poor business skills succeed.  Who are the outliers, those self-focused leaders who have succeeded anyway, and from their success, others, perhaps many of us, have benefited?   We know they are out there (Steve Jobs? Elon Musk?).   The book would have been stronger had he addressed and made room for exceptions to the case he makes.

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To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee

TKMWhy this book: I read this book 50 years ago, when I was 13 years old, just a few years after it came out – and I remember that it made quite an impression on me.   My reading group selected Go Set a Watchman – Harper Lee’s “new” release for our next book, and I saw this as an opportunity to do what I’ve been meaning to do for quite some time – re-read To Kill a Mockingbird (which I’ll refer to as “TKM”) which I hope will help set up a greater appreciation of Go Set a Watchman.

My impressions: I loved re-reading To Kill a Mockingbird.  While I loved it for many of the same reasons as the first time I read it, the perspective of age and experience helped me to appreciate it more and in a different way.   Of course I knew the story – I remembered it from the first time I read it, and I’ve seen the excellent movie several times.   This time I focused on Harper Lee’s writing – how she tells the story, how she depicts and develops her characters, how she describes life in Maycomb, Alabama in the 1930s. To me, her story and her writing are sincere and authentic. And how could you not like Scout – precocious, uninhibited, free-spirited, and trying so hard to understand grown-ups and to be more grown-up than she was.

As I read TKM, I was reminded of two other books I’ve recently read: Angela’s Ashes, Frank McCourt’s story told through his eyes as a child, of the crazy adult world he experienced in depression era Ireland. Angela’s Ashes and TKM are striking in how both evoke the innocence and practical perspective, as well as the idealism of childhood, and we see how ridiculous some of what adults accept as normal, appears to a child. Frank McCourt and Harper Lee were masters at helping us return to the innocence and honesty of that childhood perspective.

The other book was An Hour Before Daylight: Memories of a Rural Boyhood by Jimmy Carter. In that book, Jimmy Carter tells of growing up in rural Georgia during the same period a TKM takes place. I recall how he experienced shock and anger upon realizing that his black playmates from out on the farm couldn’t join him in activities in town. It just didn’t make sense to him, and he struggled to understand this injustice, eventually being forced to accommodate himself to the reality of that place and time – as Scout and Jem had to do in  TKM.

What I didn’t recall from my first reading or the movie, was how so much of the book is about the maturing of Scout’s older brother Jem. Scout is young, precocious and outgoing; Jem is about six years older, moving into his teenage years and a thoughtful introvert. We see through Scout’s eyes how Jem is struggling to create his own identity, to live up to the values and example of Atticus, and to be respected as an adult.  Scout truly admires him for that, all the while fighting for respect and recognition from her older brother.  Jem is truly one of the more interesting characters in the book and in some sense, the book is as much a coming of age book about Jem as it is about Scout.

The other aspect of the book that I loved was how Harper Lee used Scout’s perspective on the colorful cast of characters who lived there to evoke an image of life in the small town of Maycomb, Alabama.   It reminded me of how Steinbeck painted the picture of depression era Monterey in Cannery Row by introducing us to one unusual and colorful character after another. In TKM, we get to know an amazing list of eccentric and interesting people who made up the mosaic of Maycomb:  Calpurnia, the wise and highly respected black housekeeper and surrogate mother to Scout and Jem; Dolphus Raymond who lived with a black woman down by the river, and feigned alcoholism so that people wouldn’t judge him too harshly for that other transgression; Dill, Jem’s and Scout’s creative and clever summer playmate, who Scout considered to be her fiance – whatever that meant; Mrs Dubose, the grouchy old woman down the street who seemed to have no good sides, until after she died, when Atticus explained how she died with amazing courage; Sheriff Heck Tate, who at the end of the book chose to lie and violate his professional duty for a greater good, but who was not so courageous when it came to possibly protecting a black man; Aunt Alexandra, who Harper Lee set up to represent the worst of Maycomb’s “High Society,” but who we came to respect by the end of the book; and Miss Maudie, one of the few adults who treated Scout and Jem with respect and seemed to share their fundamental values.  Like Atticus – Miss Maudie always tried to see the good side of people. And of course there were Boo Radley, Tom Robinson, and Bob and Mayella Ewell, each of whom has become an iconic and tragic figure in the landscape of modern American literature.  These are some of the characters who Harper Lee uses to paint her compelling picture of the seemingly idyllic and peaceful life in small-town Maycomb, Alabama, built upon an unjust social structure of class, bigotry and prejudice.

Atticus Finch is the moral centerpiece of the book – and the way Harper Lee describes his generosity of spirit, his wisdom, and even his innocence in the face of evil, makes him an idealized and well known figure to all of us – perhaps in part because Gregory Peck plays him so well in the movie. He not only represents an ideal of fatherhood, but also of courage, justice and integrity in America.

I was inspired AGAIN by this simple but beautifully told story, and I strongly recommend it to anyone who thinks they don’t need to read it again, because they know the story. The story is tragic and wonderful at the same time.  This time, I was able to savor and better appreciate how she told it.

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Turn the Ship Around, by L. David Marquet

turn the ship aroundWhy this book. This is one of the keystone books used by All American Leadership, a company I do work with. Intereseting that a number of the leaders of AAL, including its CEO Rob Nielsen, are West Point graduates and have little experience of the Navy, but are embracing the leadership model that this book offers in their consulting in the corporate world. I read it as part of the catechism of being part of AAL. I realized that an important part of why I choose to work with them is because they embrace the principles in this book.

My Impressions: I wish I had read this book before I had command in the Navy, and before I led my team at University of San Diego.  I sent a copy to my son, who is going into his own “command” in a few months, and I think he will get some good ideas from it.   Though I believe I followed many of his principles in my own command style both in and outside the Navy, I learned a lot from this book. Marquet lays out in a simple and very readable form  a great philosophy and outline of how to transform a culture from a traditional, top-down, leader-follower organization, to a less traditional, leader-leader and much more engaged culture.  He backs up his philosophy with engaging anecdotes from his experience leading a fast-attack submarine.   His approach requires that the leader be willing to give up control, to delegate much more authority and responsibility than most leaders are used to, in order to get greater engagement, and greater response from the team s/he is leading.  Yeah – I know – you can delegate authority but not responsibility, but his point is that if only the leader feels responsible,  the leader is not getting full engagement from the team.  He talks about how the leader can make those on the team BE and FEEL responsible for the mission and performance of the whole team.

I enjoyed that Marquet challenged the traditional military model of Leader-centric leadership that I grew up with. He challenges the concept of the leader as the center of attention and the fount of all wisdom, experience, and authority in an organization. Such a model is not only not optimally effective, it does not optimally develop future leaders.    Success in the leader-centric model depends on the leader being right all, or nearly all the time and has fewer mechanisms for the wisdom of the team to contribute to success. Most of us grew up with this leadership model in books and movies – the charismatic leader who everyone looked up to, who gave orders, leads with an iron fist,  and saves the day.  All of us wanted to be that leader – the hero, the father-figure, the great one who everyone admired and aspired to be. But it is an old model that may work in some limited circumstances, but not in most environments in today’s complex and well-developed society, and doesn’t adequately respect the competence, energy, and insights of others on the team.

Marquet explicitly says that he chose to overturn much of what he had learned about leadership at the Naval Academy and in the Navy to create his own model. I think he overstates that case somewhat – though I think he has some original and creative ideas, his model is not unique or new; I have seen other leaders who have succeeded with similar styles and methods. But this book offers an excellent approach, and when I talk to junior (and senior) military people about leadership, I often refer them to this book. I also think the book has much to teach non-miltary organizations, and All American Leadership uses it extensively in their corporate consulting. I have suggested to rising CPOs to read this book with their new division or platoon officers; to new XOs and COs to read this book together.    I suggest that leaders in any organization read this book with their teams and discuss how and to what degree they can implement the tenets Marquet proposes within their organizations.

So what does he recommend? In short, pushing authority and responsibility down as far as they can go. But this must be done incrementally and carefully, as the leader and his/her team must ensure that adequate technical competence and organizational clarity on objectives are in place to ensure the team is ready to succeed when given increased authority and responsibility. Marquet inherited a ship that was used to traditional top-down leadership, and in his book, he shares his deliberate, and often frustrating process of getting people to assume more responsibility than they were used to, and to take initiative in their jobs, rather than waiting to simply be told what they’re supposed to do.  When everyone on the team knows and “owns” their job, owns the consequences of their performance, feels a sense of ownership of and responsibility for the mission and the team, well trained and good people don’t have to be told to what to do or to work hard.   Leaders are then freed up to do more work on quality, give more attention to developing people as leaders, and less on giving direction and providing oversight

A few specific lessons from the book:  Below are a few takeaways from Turn the Ship Around.

Use language of empowerment:

  • Have people say “I intend to….” instead of “Request permission to….”
  • Have people say “I plan to…” instead of “”I would like to…”
  • Have people say “I will look at alternatives and come back with my recommendation…” instead of “What should I do now?”

Don’t Brief. Certify. Leaders shouldn’t brief their people on what needs to be done.  They should provide intent with constraints and restraints and then let their subordinates brief them on how they will fulfill the mission, the leader’s intent.  Briefings by leaders allow people to passively sit and be told what the plan is and what they are supposed to do.  For the leader to “Certify” demands that people know the plan and what they’re to do. They brief the leadership on what they plan to do, and the leader(s) ask them questions to “certify” that they know the plan and their responsibilities, thus allowing the leaders to determine that their team is ready.

Resist the urge to provide solutions. This is hard.  Leaders must be teachers, and the best learning is done when people struggle with a problem, have to think, to be creative, and then ultimately attain the satisfaction of finding a solution. Then leaders provide input and positive feedback, and if appropriate, suggest other considerations. Learning takes place – and people begin to learn how to think.

Reward initiative. Seek to build a culture focused on achieveing excellence rather than avoiding making mistakes. To achieve excellence, mistakes are necessary.   Tolerate and even embrace well intentioned mistakes.

Decion making.  Making decisions is the most important job the leader has.  HOW s/he makes them  is perhaps more important.

  • If a decision needs to be made now, make it. Then debrief and critique it afterward with your team. YOU ARE FALLIBLE – and can learn.  And in understanding how and why you decided as you did, involves teaching AND learning.
  • If a decision needs to be made soon – get input – then make the decision.  You are fallible.  You’ll get surprisingly good input – if you are open to it.
  • If a decision can wait (and most can) – force the team to give inputs. Give them boundaries and general guidance. Encourage and cherish disagreement and dissension. To whatever degree possible, embrace THEIR decision. And give them credit for it.

Understand the objectives of  process. Change processes when they don’t make sense.. Marquet offers many examples of people simply and blindly following process without consideration for the objectives the processes are in place to achieve. Leaders keep objectives in mind and see processes as means to achieving objectives, not as ends unto themselves. Leaders look to modify processes that are ineffective, or if there is a better way, to achieve objectives.

Specify goals, not methods. This goes with resisting the urge to provide solutions. Encourage thinking and creativity to achieve goals.  People will develop methods that the old-hands never thought of. Ask for in-progress reviews to keep “methods” on track.

Repeat the message, continuously, consistently. A constantly repeated message – key values, principles, guidance –  will stick. Constant repetition reinforces the importance of the message.  Pick the most important values, principles, guidance, and repeat them continuously and consistently.

Think outloud. Marquet dismisses the idea of closed and “professional” communications that are typical in military culture. He encourages leaders to share their thought processes, so that team members understand and feel included in the process of making decisions. He says that “thinking outloud is essential for making the leap from leader-follower to leader-leader.”

He concludes his book with this simple line:  “Give Control. Create Leaders.”

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Tijuana Straits by Kem Nunn

Tijuana StraitsWhy this book: When I recently mentioned to a friend that I lived in Imperial Beach, he recommended this book as a novel set in Imperial Beach. Wanting to know more about where I live, I picked it up. Though I didn’t particularly care for the book, I did get some interesting insights into the environment where I live – parts of the society which I see all-around me, but with which have no substantial contact and little knowledge.

My Impressions: This is one I can’t strongly recommend -it was a fun read, but not up to the caliber of the other books I’ve been reading lately.  On the plus side, the story did provide some interesting insights into the dark underbelly of the culture of the dispossessed on both sides of the border between Tijuana and Imperial Beach.  Also, Kem Nunn writes well –he has an excellent command of English and an ability to turn a good phrase –but I felt that his talent was not well used on this story.

The novel is about a beautiful Mexican woman environmental activist and social worker who someone tries to kill.   Through luck and circumstance, she is rescued by an over-the-hill, ne’er do well former champion surfer, former drug runner and convict, who was living a subsistence life-style on the edges of society in the southern rural part of Imperial Beach.  We get to know the surfer-dude – an interesting and sad character – in his 40’s and over the hill – what made him who he was, and his own disappointments with himself and his life.  Through him and his life we got a peek into the edgy world of fanatic surfers from the 70’s and 80’s.   We got to know the woman – idealistic, working hard to improve the lives of the poor in Tijuana, wiser than her young age, trying to find her path and make an impact against the greed and corruption that continue to harm the poor in Tijuana.  And we got to know the driven socio-path who was trying to kill her, shaped by a very tough childhood, consumed with hate and resentment, and a capacity for violence, killing, and survival in the nasty underworld of drugs, crime and poverty in Tijuana. The book is about the confluence of these three characters and their worlds, culminating in a fast and gripping scene that takes place in the Tijuana sloughs, just a mile or two south of where I live. It also includes some interesting insights into the smuggling, drug running, and illegal border crossing that is part of the world along the Tijuana-IB border area. I found Nunn’s writing effective, and he caught my attention with some great lines and phrases. Though at times interesting, and the story had an exciting concluding scene, the novel and the characters seemed a bit formulaic.   I also felt that the epilogue and anti-climactic ending were a bit cheesy and unsatisfying.

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Legacy – 15 Lessons in Leadership, by James Kerr

Legacy sidewaysWhy this book:  Strongly recommended to me by the Commanding Officer of SEAL Basic Training Command about a year ago. Since then, it has become almost required reading in the SEAL teams, and James Kerr has been invited several times to speak to the SEALs about the All Blacks leadership model.  I’ve gotten to meet and know him and we have had a very engaging conversation about what makes great teams.   This book has also been brought into the core curriculum of All American Leadership consulting with businesses.  It tells a great story in a truly remarkable way.

 My impressions: This is the leadership book that has resonated with me more than any other. It continues to inspire me, and I pick it up occasionally and open it to random pages for inspiration.  It is short and practical and easy to read. I suppose it works for me, because it says better than I have been able to, what I believe makes a truly ‘elite’ team. It resonates with the ideal that I and people I have admired most in my military career strived for in the teams we led. It presents an ideal based on a real team – with similarities to elite commando units and other elite high performance teams in other contexts.

James Kerr was able to embed for 6 weeks with the New Zealand All Blacks rugby team – the most successful professional sports franchise in history. Unknown to those who don’t follow rugby, they are the apogee of a great and successful team in the world of rugby, which internationally, is much more popular than America’s favorite pastimes, baseball and football.   But what they have accomplished, and continue to accomplish is the goal of any great team, in any context.

Kerr talks about how the team stumbled and struggled, but got back on their feet, stronger than ever, by returning to their core value – that individual character and dedication to the team are their most important virtues. One key theme throughout the book is how the players own their culture and hold each other accountable for living up to its values. The coaches help and guide, but the players have to enforce amongst themselves the values that make them great.   Winning comes as a result of focus on character and teamwork. Focus only on winning-in-the-short-term can lead to compromise on the fundamental values of character and team work which will cost a team over the long run. Almost every great rugby player in the world wants to be a member of the greatest rugby team of all time, but the All Blacks select their players not based on who has the most talent, but who has the best character and will fit best in their team-first ethos. Their stated policy of ‘No Dickheads’ excludes highly talented prima-donnas.  And this approach has worked for them.  Extremely well.

The All Blacks build and draw energy from their history and traditions, and an almost spiritual connection to the Maori culture of New Zealand.   Those who might find their traditions and rituals corny, won’t fit. Either buy in to the Maori haka they perform at the beginning of every game, and the extensive use of Maori language and symbolism in their team, or you don’t become an All Black. The notebook given to each new member and the on-boarding acculturation process they enforce are intense and demanding. And for that reason, players on the All Blacks rugby team value their membership in this club as among their highest life priorities.   This motivates them to live by the values of the culture, or else be told to leave.   Such dedication is a goal for any great organization.

The title of the book is Legacy – 15 lessons in leadership with the tag line is “What the All Blacks can teach us about the business of life.” Each chapter is one of these lessons. Some of the chapter/lesson titles include; Character, Adapt, Purpose, Authenticity, Sacrifice, Responsibility, Expectations, Ritual. 

A few of the many many great and inspiring quotes from this book include:

  • Aim for the highest cloud;
  • be a good ancestor – plant trees you’ll never see;
  • the strength of the wolf is the pack;
  • if you bow your head, let it be to a lofty mountain;
  • leaders create leaders;
  • ritualize to actualize;
  • leave the jersey in a better place;
  • when you’re at the top of your game, change your game;
  • sweep the sheds – never get too big to do the small things that need to be done.

And there are many more.

There is so much quality in this book, it is difficult to capture it in a short review.   If you are interested in an intense, demanding, character-driven leadership model, read this book. I recently insisted that a friend of mine, a former marine and courageous leader himself, read this book. He did -3 times through – and he can’t stop talking about how it continues to inspire him.   Maybe that’s part of why we’re good friends!

A possible short coming. The All-Blacks are an all-male team and I grew up in the largely all-male world of the Navy SEALs – so clearly, this model resonated with me.  Many teams in today’s world however are mixed-gender, and I suspect that some of the particulars of this model would need adjustment to work in mixed-gender teams.   I believe that most of the what James Kerr describes as the All Blacks model in Legacy could be adapted slightly to make it work well in mixed-gender teams.   It would be an interesting discussion – how to adapt this testosterone-fueled model of leadership and team building to mixed-gender or even to all female teams.   It would be great to get some women’s perspective on that, but I am convinced it could be done – and to great effect, but this book leaves the whether, the how, and possible considerations, unaddressed.

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Narrow Road to the Deep North, by Richard Flanagan

Narrow RoadWhy this book: Selected by our reading group, at the insistence of my wife, Mary Anne. I recall her reading this book and repeatedly telling me that I had to read it.  She and several of those in our reading group found this to be an extraordinary book – one of the best they’d ever read.  Some reviewers are referring to it as a master piece.  I agree that it is remarkable, powerful, and extremely well written book.

My impressions: This book received the Man-Booker Prize for 2014, it is a wonderfully written book, and it covers a lot of ground.

It begins while our protagonist, Dorigo Evans is a young boy in Madagascar in the 1920’s, then takes him to young adulthood in Australia, and then into the Army as a Doctor in WWII. The center of gravity of the story takes place when Dorigo Evans becomes the senior officer over several hundred Australian Prisoners of War in a Japanese camp building the infamous Burma-Thailand Death Railway – yes, to include over the River Kwai.  Brutal. Beyond King Rat, beyond Unbroken, and yet, the author’s description of the men and the suffering in the camp has more depth and more humanity than either of those books.

What makes Narrow Road to the Deep North truly remarkable is how different sections of the book describe the very personal perspectives of several different characters – Australian and Japanese. Flanagan brings out the humanity in each. We in the west will most easily sympathize with the Australian prisoners, but we get to know the Japanese Camp Commandant – raised by kind and gentle parents – who did what he felt he had to do for his emperor and the glory of japan –though it was often distasteful to him. Brutality in the name of the emperor was not only acceptable, it was expected in their culture –he and the Japanese had been raised to fully believe that.

In one particularly memorable scene, during which one of the Australian prisoners was being beaten nearly to death as an example to the other prisoners, we experience the shame of the other prisoners, sick, emaciated, exhausted, as they stood by helplessly watching. Dorigo Evans, as senior officer, did what he could to stop it, but in so doing, made the beating much worse. And finally, Evans realizes that somehow this was as it had to be – the camp commandant was only doing what was demanded of him by his culture, his position, his upbringing, and the circumstances.

We see the horrific consequences of the Japanese unquestioning belief and total focus on their mission and cause, at the expense of any concern for individual suffering and dignity.   And we must ask ourselves, could we ‘enlightened Americans’ ever be guilty of that?

The time in the POW camp is less than half of the novel – much of this story takes place outside of the camp – before, during, and especially after the war, how Evans and several of the characters –Australian and Japanese – dealt with the aftermath. Flanagan follows the lives of several on both sides who shared that horrific experience. For all who lived and experienced the PoW camp, it shaped who they were and how they lived thereafter. A Vietnam veteran friend of mine just gave a speech in my Toastmasters club in which he shared his own experiences of grief, guilt, and regret, concluding that those who go to war never completely get over it. That is also one of the messages of this book. I would add that the closer that experience is to the killing, the dying and horror of war, the more intense the guilt, grief, regret, and the greater the psychological impact.

Though by all accounts a hero, Dorigo Evans never saw himself as a good man. He rarely felt the impulse to do good and be courageous; he merely did what he saw as his duty, and always fought the impulse to take care of himself first. But he was remarkable in his sense of duty; I was stunned by his sacrifice and his example as the senior officer and doctor at the POW camp.   Though he was renowned and revered in Australia after the war,  he was unhappy, and unfulfilled.  He was a flawed man, disingenuous with his friends and family, and inauthentic in much that he did. Though he was still driven by his sense of ‘duty,’ and  did what was expected of him,  he never followed his heart, and never did what he truly wanted to do.  He lacked the courage to step out of the roles he felt he was expected to fulfill. He never felt free to be who he truly felt he was, and never expressed his true feelings.   There is a very poignant unfulfilled love relationship that runs the length of the book, that was in part, a symptom of this reserve, and also an important source of his underlying sadness.

“The Narrow Road to the Deep North” is the title of the travel journal by the famous Japanese poet Basho.  Through his key Japanese characters, Flanagan treats us to a number of short and beautiful Haiku throughout the book. The incongruity between the beauty and simplicity of these poems, and the brutality that they somehow inspired in the Japanese elite is one of the mysteries Flanagan leaves unresolved.   As I read this remarkable book, and shared the experiences and perspectives of its many characters, Australian and Japanese, men and women, I felt the importance of accepting death as part of life, I sensed the beauty but impermanence of simple joys and happiness, that sadness and acceptance are key to understanding suffering, and that indeed our time on this earth is short…and not to be taken for granted.

Winter Ice

melts into clean water –

clear is my heart.

A world of pain –

if the cherry blossoms,

it blossoms.    

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The Innovator’s DNA, by Jeff Dyer, Hal Gregorson, Clayton Christensen

The Innovator's DNAWhy this book:  My colleagues in All American Leadership selected it as a book for all of us to read and discuss. While I couldn’t make the discussion  due to a conflict, I read the book and found that it had some very useful insights.  Additionally, I read the book concurrent to my participation in Stanford’s Ignite Certificate program in Entrepreneurship and found it very complementary to the curriculum, though Ignite focused more on the commercialization of innovative ideas.

My impressions.  The authors make the simple distinction between “Discoverers”  – those who are more  creative and innovative in their approach to problem solving and life – and “Deliverers” –those who are more comfortable in managing and injecting discipline into process.  These are in fact two aspects of leadership – the openness to new and innovative approaches, and the need for disciplined adherence to process.  This book points to the healthy tension between these two, and offers a short quiz to help readers determine if they are more inclined to one or the other.  I suspect most readers already know their own predilection.

BUT the authors also make the point that with deliberate effort, one can become more innovative and creative in one’s leadership style, similarly to how, with deliberate effort, one can become a better leader. Obviously as in all endeavors –  such as leadership – some are naturally more gifted than others, but all of us can learn to think and lead more creatively – and the book offers some suggestions as to how.

The book points out how many successful businesses are founded by innovative Discoverers.  However,  managing a business is not normally a strength of most Discoverers, so boards  and investors will frequently call in a Deliverer – someone who excels in execution –  to run the business once the Discoverer’s innovation is gaining momentum.  And they point out that this step often leads to the end or the significant slowing down of  innovation for that company.  This point has been reinforced in Ignite.

Five Skills: The thesis of The Innovator’s DNA is built around  the below five  “skills,” which they associate with innovation – the first of which they classify as “cognitive,”  the other four as “behavioral.”

  1. Association between unlike events, products, experiences. Discoverers see unlikely relationships between seemingly unrelated activities, fields and endeavors;
  2. Questioning of why things are the way they are, why not otherwise, and show a natural curiosity to understand not only what is, but what might be;
  3. Observation – As part of their effort to understand their environment, Discoverers are always watching, to understand what is happening, to help them identify possibilities and opportunities. They refer to innovators as being natural anthropologists – seeking to understand how people behave and why.
  4. Networking as a means to better understand different environments. They emphasize making contact with expertise and experience OUTSIDE of one’s normal field of endeavor – and using association and questioning skills to learn what insights might apply to one’s own world. They call this “Idea Networking,” and distinguish this idea networking, driven by curiosity and a desire to learn, from networking for career connections.
  5. Experimentation – Innovators are driven by a desire to understand and succeed by learning; they understand that failures are part of that process.   Experimentation includes a strong bias for action – to try things out – even to launch products and ideas before they are fully ready – to see what happens, to see what works, and speed up the process of improvement.

Some other interesting takeaways:

Failure:  The Innovator’s DNA talks a lot about accepting failure as an important part of being creative. In fact, over and over again, they note that “the most essential part of creativity is not being afraid to fail,”  mistakes are nothing to be ashamed of, and innovative leaders and organizations don’t punish (well-intentioned) failure.   IDEO –one of the most innovative companies in America – has the slogan, “Fail often to succeed sooner.”  They quote Richard Branson : “The very idea of entrepreneurship…conjures up the frightening prospect of taking risks and failing.”

Scarcity is often a spur to creativity – figuring out how to do more with less.  It recalls to me the idea of “field expedient” solutions to problems that military people are familiar with –  finding creative ways to solve problems with whatever is at hand, without a surfeit of time and resources.

Questioning – This book echoes that great line from Peter Drucker “The most common source of mistakes in management decision-making is the emphasis on finding the right answers rather than the right questions.”   They suggest an alternative to Brain-storming: Question-storming.  When you have a problem, instead of everyone throwing up suggestions and ideas, everyone throws up questions – to help identify what is not known, as well as what might be done.

Deliverers –  Taking innovation successfully into the market place requires having skilled deliverers, not just innovators.   They list the skills of deliverers as:   Analysis, Planning, Detailed Implementation, Disciplined Execution.  At the same time, they point out how an overemphasis on delivery and efficiency can kill innovation. Innovation is by its very nature “inefficient” (over the short term) because it has to make room for activities that are not directly tied to achieving immediate results. Returning to Peter Drucker –  “People who don’t take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year.”

Developing Innovators – the book has a great final appendix on how to develop innovative mindsets in children.  We could ALL learn from that.

As an inveterate associator, I think this book also applies well beyond business to how to live well and succeed in any endeavor – I believe that living well demands that we live creatively and create a unique life that fits who we are,  as opposed to accepting what is sometimes referred to as an “off-the-shelf life.”   It would be an interesting exercise to apply the principles in the Innovator’s DNA to the general art of Living Well.

A downside to the book:  The Innovator’s DNA doesn’t mention how innovators and creatives are sometimes not particularly enjoyable people and are often very hard to live with  – they are frequently so driven by their vision, their passion for creativity and innovation, that it is often at the expense of being otherwise good friends, partners, citizens, and otherwise fulfilled human beings.   Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Richard Branson and of course, many of our most creative artists (e.g. Van Gogh, Nietzsche, Mozart among many others) are notorious for having struggled with their personal relationships and with finding happiness and fulfillment in life.  That is often the burden of being a gifted creative.   But the rest of us have benefitted greatly from their creativity – and their struggles.  It’s a point that might have been addressed in The Innovator’s DNA.

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Dancing at the Rascal Fair, by Ivan Doig

rascal fairWhy this book:  I had read and really liked a couple of Ivan Doig’s other books – Heart Earth and This House of Sky – both beautifully written autobiographical accounts of his childhood and young adulthood in Montana in the 1930s, 40s and 50s.   A couple of months ago, I overheard a couple of my friends from the National Outdoor Leadership School  discussing Ivan Doig – he had just died.  They had each read nearly all of his books.  I mentioned that  I wanted  to read some more of him, and they both suggested Dancing at the Rascal Fair as one of his best.

My Impressions:   This is a novel of the American experience on the frontier at the end of the 19th and beginning of the 20th century – beautifully and simply written, in the straightforward style of Hemingway, or Steinbeck (but different – perhaps a bit more literary.)    The novel  is written in the first person from the perspective of Angus McCaskill a young man from Scotland who emigrates to America.

The story begins in the 1880s on the docks of Greenock, Scotland and Angus and his closest friend are facing the trepidation of leaving the only world they know, to find a relative in in Montana –and begin life anew.   Eventually these two resourceful young men find themselves in Gros Ventre, a fictional town in north-central Montana, on the edge of the Rockies, near the Canadian border.  They each decide to establish a homestead and  they both take up sheep ranching.  Dancing at the Rascal Fair is Angus McCaskill telling us his story – the key events in his life over some 35 years.   The two young men struggle to establish themselves and create a life for themselves and their families, with weather, disease, unforeseen calamity, and financial ruin always a threat.  The colorful and very believable characters in this very small ranching community help each other get through good times and bad. We experience the drama of this one man’s life against the backdrop of a harsh, unforgiving, yet magnificent natural setting – courting and marriage, love and disappointment,  children,  joy, sadness  tragedy, the seeking of redemption  –  in other words,  the struggles of life.

I very much got into Angus’s McCaskill’s  life – his head and his heart.   He is a quiet,  introspective and insightful man, who often looks to the poetry of Robert Burns for solace, to help him connect the events of his own life to something bigger – to Scotland, to the larger human experience.   He comes to accept what is, never completely giving up what might have been.   He is stoic in accepting life’s uncertainties and disappointments,  never completely trusting its joys and satisfactions.  But for Angus – we have but one choice – to do the best we can under the circumstances – and to take care of each other.

This story takes us to 1919, and we experience how the tragedies of WWI and the great flu epidemic impact this isolated Montana community.   Doig continues the story of the McCaskill family in the next book in his Montana Trilogy – English Creek, which I will get to in the next months….

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